This wanted to motivate her boyfriend. He had lost his job and he was so depressed because he was not getting a new one fast enough. He was so negative that it was rubbing off of her and she did not like it. She was pissed to the extent that instead of encouraging him with positive words and words of affirmation, she humiliated him and choked him by crushing and smothering his face with her bare feet. She made him lick them too. It was tough love.